As we continue to explore how technology will/can play a greater role in what we do, one of the things that needs to be addressed is the how we make people, students and adults, responsible for what they are saying. As an administrator, I’ve learned that people will say things about you or comment on what you do and some of it won’t be done in a very nice way. Today, on my school blog, I received my first comment. Very first. I only publicize it in our newsletter and have homework on it. Now, from my reaction, you can guess that it wasn’t necessarily positive and it used a bit of profanity. However, like I posted in my post on LeaderTalk, I know that even these comments have nuggets that I need to mine and use to become a better leader and person.
This doesn’t make it easy sometimes. All the positive talk and self-assurance sometimes doesn’t negate that fact that there are times that one just becomes tired of the negativity, especially when someone doesn’t even have the courage to sign their name. That, I think, is what bothers me the most. As the web2.0 tools become more and more accessible, we’re seeing the idea of personal integrity becoming weaker and weaker. Before, a person had to at least carve it in a stall wall or find a black permanent marker and do some planning so not to be caught. Now, they can do this from the comfort of their rooms, listening to their favourite music and having a snack. Trash talk on websites has become more acceptable.
I mean, technorati uses a common acronym (WTF) for a link!
CoolCatTeacher was included in a conversation about educators who blogged anonymously in a newspaper article. In that same article, an anonymous educator even argued in favour of such behaviour as a supposed way to expose the problems in the system without reprisal. Why would you not want to stand by what you say. I’ve never understood that whole line, unless, of course, you’re testifying against the mob! If, however, you are just sounding off about your own agenda and rants, then, yes, you might end up in a bit of trouble, which you should. It all comes down to accountability. The less we want to be accountable, the more we can rationalize being anonymous or using an alias.
Back to the comment. Maybe not all administrators will react the same way. I would rather deal with the issue than get mad. I’d rather try to find a solution than know that there is someone running around, really unhappy, probably saying things that are negative about the school and me, and not being able to do a thing about it. I might not be able to find a solution or solve the problem but, this way, I can’t do anything. Yes, I understand that the person is fearing a reprimand or reprisal for what they say but they need to understand that this type of rant doesn’t help the situation, but makes it more difficult and creates an even greater barrier to hurdle. Anonymous rants or letters to the editor get the same treatment – no air time.
Web2.0 has given us the power of voice like we’ve never had before! Without integrity, however, being heard will be about the same as shouting over the crashing of waves on breakers. Or, as my grandfather use to say, everyone has an opinion but to be noticed you have to do more than be a gong making noise. Given that the noise from the web is growing, people, especially students, will need to develop a voice that isn’t just more noise among the cacophony. There will be no room for those who won’t stand behind what they say. There’s no time.
The way I figure it, if at least there is a name, I have an idea who is upset and mad and maybe, in a bit of time, I might be able to approach the person and we can begin to bring things to a positive conclusion, heal the breach and build a positive.
Sigh – it’s been one of those weeks!


5 responses so far ↓
I certainly agree with your concerns. I have not yet made a public blog for the school community although many do know about my professional reflections blog. I am sure you have explored this but I think my school blog will be set to only allow registered users to comment. I will have to think about that. Your experience also highlights for me the need to not only provide training to our students on ethical and acceptable use but also to reach out and educate the parent community.
Before technology I still had to communicate about anonymous complaints and make it clear to the community that if the letter came with no name it would be filed in the trash can. On a more positive note I also made clear that I have an open door policy as I am sure you do too.
Integrity as you say is the key and its should be a key value for our students and families alike.
The reporter admitted to me that I was included because my name was catchy — not because blog anonymously. She shouldn’t have used it but she did! So, I am very open about my name — yet another example of people stretching the truth for a story.
Sounds like a discussion you need to have with kids…teachable moment. I think the idea of digital integrity may be one of the most important skills we can teach.
I am wrestling with the idea to include a school blog on the school website myself. I have the pleasure of working in a district were people who are unhappy or disgruntled would rather make their name known to the public than go around remaining anonymous. However, students in the school are just trying out their wings a bit when it comes to using websites and blogs to get a message out that t hey are unhappy with an administrative decision. I am torn though, on the one hand it is what we are teaching our kids to do, stand up for themselves and to not blindly accept things in life as they are. On the other hand, their is a fine line between voicing your opinion and following the right channels and being disrespectful and feeling you can say whatever you want under the security blanket of anonymity.
As things progress and this platform becomes the norm, I am sure their will be policy and protocol that follows it, until then it is important to use this as a teaching moment, as you said, and try to get students and communities to understand how important and powerful words are and that once you use them they are awfully hard, if not impossible, too take back. Especially when they are in print for the world to see.
Brad
When I ran a school blog the majority of the comments were anonymous and not to the point. Naturally I had to moderate them. even so I like the approach.
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